Don’t Let These Regrets Steal Your Spotlight


Indian weddings are larger than life. They are colourful, emotional, and deeply rooted in tradition. From the joyful mehendi to the emotional bidaai, every ritual is packed with meaning. But in the rush of it all, some couples look back and say, “We wish we had...”

At Vows by SiddhuSoma, we've documented countless Indian weddings across the country and heard first-hand the things couples regret not doing. Here's your chance to avoid those missed moments and plan a wedding you’ll remember with zero regrets.


1. Not Hiring the Right Wedding Photographer


One of the biggest regrets? Choosing a photographer based only on budget and not style or connection.

Your wedding photos are your forever memories. Many couples wish they had invested in someone who understood Indian rituals, emotions, and the luxury editorial style they envisioned.


Tip: Have a detailed conversation with your photographer about your vibe, rituals, and family dynamics.


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2. Not Spending Enough Time Together


Believe it or not, many couples barely spend 10–15 minutes alone together on their wedding day.

Between outfit changes, rituals, guests, and photos—it’s easy to get pulled in different directions. Later, couples say they missed truly soaking in the day together.

Fix It: Ask your planner to schedule a 15-minute breather post-wedding or during golden hour for just the two of you. (It also makes for stunning couple portraits.)


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3. Skipping a First Look or Private Vow Exchange


In traditional Indian weddings, couples often see each other for the first time on stage. But many now wish they had a private moment before the chaos.

A “first look” or a short personal vow exchange (even before the pheras) is not just romantic; it also creates some of the most emotional, timeless photos.


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4. Not Creating a Family Photo List


Amidst the big day rush, many couples forget to get proper portraits with their grandparents, cousins, or even both sets of parents together.

Later, they realise they don’t have a single good photo with that one special person.

Fix It: Make a family photo checklist and share it with your photographer. These are memories you’ll never get back.


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5. Not Soaking In the Rituals


Many brides and grooms say they felt like they were just going through the motions of the rituals.

Whether it’s kanyadaan, mangalsutra, or sindoor, these moments are loaded with emotion and tradition. Rushing through them means missing the beauty of what they truly mean.

Fix It: Take your time. Breathe. Let your photographer know to capture the tiny expressions—your teary-eyed mom, your smile during the varmala, or your dad's quiet pride.


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6. Not Eating Enough or Hydrating


Sounds simple but it's one of the most common regrets. Brides fainting during pheras, grooms missing dinner, or couples forgetting to even try the wedding food—they all happen more than you think.

Fix It: Have a bridesmaid or friend remind you to sip water and snack throughout the day. (Trust us, even haldi laddoos count.)


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7. Not Doing a Dress or Dupatta Trial With Jewelry


Many brides regret not doing a full outfit trial with jewelry, makeup, shoes, and dupatta pinning.

The result? Safety pins showing in photos, discomfort during varmala, or mangalsutra getting tangled in heavy necklaces.

Fix It: Do a trial run and share photos with your photographer so they can plan poses and shots accordingly.


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8. Not Delegating Enough


Couples often try to manage everything themselves and end up overwhelmed.

Later, they regret not assigning clear roles to siblings, friends, or a wedding planner. This affects both your energy and your experience in the moment.

Fix It: Delegate everything—from collecting mehendi cones to handling vendor calls so you can be present and joyful.


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9. Not Having a “Photo Buffer Time”


Some couples skip buffer time for couple portraits, thinking they’ll “do it later.” But between rituals and guests, time flies and those perfect golden hour shots are missed.

Fix It: Ask your photographer when the light is best, and block at least 30–40 minutes for a quick romantic couple shoot.


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10. Not Being Present


Above all, couples say they regret not pausing to enjoy their wedding. It’s easy to get caught up in checklists, photos, and relatives.

But what you’ll remember most are the stolen glances, heartfelt hugs, tears of joy, and bursts of laughter.

Fix It: Let go of perfection. Trust your team. And let your photographer capture the day as it unfolds with authenticity and beauty.


Final Thoughts


Your Indian wedding is one of the most meaningful chapters of your life. The last thing you want is to look back with “I wish we had…”

At Vows by SiddhuSoma, we believe in being more than photographers—we’re memory-keepers, emotion-catchers, and quiet observers of the beautiful chaos that makes up your shaadi.


Want to ensure every meaningful moment is captured forever? Get in touch with us and let’s plan your story—regret-free.